Ok, here’s a protip from me to you. If you’ve been following my blog so far, you’ve noticed that I purposely signed up for a 3 month subscription to eHarmony.
Many websites claim that the 6 month or 12 month subscription is the way to go. I would argue that the 3 month subscription is a better proposition.
Coupons for eharmony That Work:
If you sign up for a 12 or 6 month sub, you’re going to pay a lot of money, even if you use a promotional code for eHarmony. There are several variations of the 3 month eHarmony subscription out there:
– Buy 3 months, get 1 month free
– 3 months for $19.95
– 3 months for $9.95
– 68% off a 3 month subscription
The trick to successfully using one of these eHarmony coupons is to find the right one that works. I normally use VeggieMatchMakers to locate a working eHarmony coupon. Several of my friends are vegans and member of the site and the owner gives out the latest working discounts to all the online dating sites. It took me about 10 seconds from the time I found the code on VMM to the time I successfully entered it into the coupon box when checking out.
Reason Why the 3 Month Sub is the Best Bet
So back to the 3 month sub. As you can see from the different amount of discounts available at any given time, you’re going to wind up saving a lot of money. 3 months for $20 is a bargain. That’s equivalent to 4 cups of Starbucks coffee?
Nobody in their right mind is going to have the mental and physical energy to go out on date after date after date for 6 or 12 months. It seems like an ideal situation, and when people tend to get an idea in their head, nothing will stop them.
But the reality of the situation is that after going out on dates for 4 months, and constantly communicating with potential matches – it gets old after a while. Your heart won’t be in it and it could cause you wind up settling for less than what you originally were looking for.
So this is why a 3 month subscription to eHarmony is the most intelligent thing to do. So what happens if you don’t find the love of your life after 3 months?
“These things happen.”
You take a 3 month break. Allow your proverbial batteries to recharge. Hang out with your girlfriends or guy friends. You will find that the answers that you seek (eg: “what kind of guy am I really looking for?”) will become very clear and often when you least expect it. But this learning process can’t begin until you’re off the dating site and placing your focus elsewhere. I have no idea why this works, it’s probably some random psychological thing inside our heads, but once you take your focus away from dating and put it back on you – the answers you seek will materialize when you least expect it.